FIELD NOTES

Notes

Field notes from the years before the appointment. Short, sourced pieces on what to write down before your next healthcare conversation.

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appointment prep

Perimenopause Bleeding Changes: The One Column to Add to Your Log

A dates-only period calendar shows that you bled, not what changed. Add one flag column...

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appointment prep

Perimenopause Appointment: The One Sentence That Gets You Heard

A bare list of symptoms is easy to nod at and set aside. Learn the one-sentence format ...

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advocate

Bring a Second Set of Ears to Your Perimenopause Appointment

A short appointment is a lot to hold alone. Here is the one-page brief you hand the per...

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appointment prep

How Long Should You Track Perimenopause Before Your Appointment?

A single hard day tells your clinician little. This is how long to track before a perim...

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field notes

Why perimenopause feels like puberty in reverse

The same hormones that ran the show at thirteen are moving again — this time downward. ...

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perimenopause

The 6 perimenopause symptoms nobody warns you about

Frozen shoulder. Rage. Electric shocks. Burning mouth. Tinnitus. Skin itching. Six peri...

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appointment prep

How to log a hot flash pattern in 30 seconds a day

Hot flashes are one of the symptoms clinicians can most easily work with, but only if t...

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advocacy

How to find a menopause-literate doctor (a scoring system)

Only about twenty percent of OB-GYNs feel adequately trained in menopause. Here is a si...

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advocacy

What the doctor's 'wait and see' actually means (and what to say back)

'Let's wait and see' sometimes means what it appears to mean. More often, it means the ...

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hormones

What estrogen actually does — a plain-English explainer

Estrogen has receptors throughout the body — not only in the reproductive system. Here ...

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appointment prep

The one page to fill in before you drive home

Ten minutes after you leave the appointment, the visit starts to fade. Here is the driv...

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appointment prep

The 3-line follow-up email that gets your provider to respond

The portal message that gets ignored is the vague one. The message that gets a real ans...

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